TY - BOOK ID - 5494671 TI - Au pair. AU - Burikova, Zuzana AU - Miller, Daniel. PY - 2010 SN - 9780745650128 9780745650111 0745650120 0745650112 PB - Cambridge Polity DB - UniCat KW - Au pairs KW - Child care workers KW - Personnes au pair KW - Travailleurs spécialisés dans le soin des enfants KW - 647.2 KW - 640.1 KW - Staff working in the house. Household servants and supervisors KW - Privé-huishoudingen KW - 647.2 Staff working in the house. Household servants and supervisors KW - Travailleurs spécialisés dans le soin des enfants UR - https://www.unicat.be/uniCat?func=search&query=sysid:5494671 AB - Many families leave their children for years to be looked after by young people about whom they know next to nothing, from places they have barely heard of. Who are these au pairs, why do they come and what is their experience of this arrangement? Do they, for their part, find that they are treated as one of the family, and would they even want to be? After a year of careful research, this book shows how most of our assumptions and expectations about au pairs are wrong. This is the first book devoted to the lives of au pairs, their leisure as well as their work time. We see this world from the eyes of the visitors, and their unique perspective on what lies at the heart of our family life. The book does not flinch from documenting the realities of the situation Ð the racism and the problematic behaviour of the au pairs themselves, as much as the ignorance and exploitation they can be subject to. The book is a case study in how to come to feel modern life empathetically from the viewpoint of one of those many migrant groups we take for granted and rely on but rarely try to understand ER -